Reclaiming Your Mind

When people try to set boundaries without changing their mindset, they often find it hard to make them stick. To make a boundary effective you need to be firm and confident when you put them in place, if you are, you will have a much better result with them. Creating a mindset that supports YOUR wellbeing and not just other peoples will mean that when you finally say no you will sound convincing and not someone how is unsure of their boundaries.

One of the major keys to healing form narcissistic abuse is to understand that you cannot change them back into who you thought they were. That version of them, the one you loved, cared for, protected, supported and was always there for never existed. That version of them was created to turn you into the person they could use and abuse. They went to great pains to convince you they were the kind of person you need in your life,